§ DELETE THE FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN;
Most people have the fear of failure even before starting anything at all, there
is this belief of inadequacy. Fear goes a long way in building a negative
thought which can destroy your dreams from the onset. Cultivate the habit of
thinking positively, if you can imagine it, you can dream it, if you can dream
it, you can do it, if you can do it, you can achieve it. Get an amazing picture
of what you want for yourself in your mind, keep dreaming, don’t stop
achieving!!!!
§ ASSOCIATE WITH THE RIGHT PEOPLE:
I believe that the saying “SHOW ME YOUR FRIEND AND I WOULD TELL YOU WHO YOU
ARE’’ is applicable in this context . If the people around you are the kind of
people who don’t believe in their goals, people who don’t know how to make
things happen, they would surely discourage you from doing your thing,
personally, with certain friends I know how far I have gone, and with others, I
know how they have helped to discourage me, you are all appreciated. Sometimes,
it might be intentional, some friends just don’t want you to grow and to
achieve great things because they can’t do what you can do, while others are
just care free, and they prefer to make fun of something instead of
appreciating it, either ways, surround yourself with people who have better
understanding about goals and how to achieve it, DON LET ANYONE STOP YOUR
SHINE.
§ GET A ROLE MODEL: Everyone
should have a role model, someone you can look up to. To achieve something
great in life, and to maintain the zeal to pursue your dreams, you must have a
role model, some people have the belief that why should I have a role model?? I
don’t want to be like anyone, I love this kind of thought, but the fact is
making someone a role model doesn’t mean you want to make them a small god, it
just means you would have the clear image of what you want to be like, also it
would reduce the fear of not being accepted or not making it, for instance, my
role model is oprah winfrey, now, I have a picture of some things in mind, if
oprah can do it, I CAN DO IT!!, That’s a great feeling that can keep you going.
WHO IS YOUR ROLE MODEL??????
§ LET PEOPLE GIVE YOU A FEEDBACK:
As you begin something, may be you are a writer, you can give a lecturer, an
aunt, your dad or even a friend your write up to tell you where you are missing
it, the things you didn’t include, and the likes, also you would be encouraged,
but don’t be surprised, some would only tell you about your mistakes, and won’t
bother to appreciate your effort, that doesn’t mean you are a failure, some
people are just not good at appreciating others, why not look at it from this
perspective, the mistakes pointed out are the things you should focus on, they
would bring out the best in you. Receive your feed back with an open mind, JUST
DO THE ADJUSMENT!!!!
§ IT NOT ALL ABOUT MONEY: IF YOU
ARE JUST STARTING A BUSINESS OR YOU ARE AN UPCOMING ARTIST, THIS CHAPTER IS FOR
YOU, most people just want to make fast money, it’s a stale gist to say nothing
comes easy, we all know that, it takes perseverance and hard work to win the
race of life, all those celebrities we see didn’t just stat making money, we
had stories of these celebrities who do free shows, for some, no body showed up
on their first show. That means they must have spent money in organizing the
show, so, no body showing up is just a great loss, a Yoruba adage goes thus, “
OWO LA FI MA N WA OWO”, this simply means, to get money, you must also be ready
to give. Money is the OBJECTIVE, and not the PRIORITY!!!
STAY
FOCUSED
I fink itz *oprah* ...
ReplyDeleteBeen lukin for a role model for a very long time.
Since itz ur IDEA,will u be my *ROLE MODEL?* *rme*
Awwn,#smiles# no problem
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